August 4-2025
By: Qando Qoaching Team
Editor: Dhania Puspa Purbasari
Imagine waking up one morning and meeting someone who claims to be your future spouse. This person knows everything about you, the poor choices you’ll make, and the bitter consequences that await if you keep ignoring what truly matters: love and family. This is the premise of the 2025 feature film SORE: Istri dari Masa Depan (SORE: Wife from the Future)—a story that touches the heart and invites deep questions: “What if we could fix the future by changing today?”
Directed by Yandy Laurens and starring Dion Wiyoko and Sheila Dara Aisha, this film is more than a romantic drama. It’s an emotional journey about rediscovery—of the self, of love, and of the people closest to us—through awareness, sacrifice, and wholehearted care.
In this article, Qando Qoaching invites you to look at SORE not just as a film, but as a mirror for how we relate to our own families. Because the truth is, strong family relationships always start with individual transformation. This is also the essence of our program New Me: Me & My Family.
Jonathan, Ourselves, and the Challenge of Growing Up
Jonathan, the main character in SORE, is a young architect—ambitious, smart, and… busy. He represents many of us: productive, successful, yet slowly becoming numb to what truly matters. He’s unaware that today’s small decisions are shaping a future filled with emotional distance and regret.
The arrival of Sore from the future disrupts his routine. She brings messages from a time ahead: about love lost, missed opportunities, and seemingly minor decisions with major consequences.
In real life, Jonathan reflects many of us. How often do we delay being present for our family, chase external validation while neglecting emotional investments at home, or take our loved ones for granted?
The New Me: Me & My Family program helps us realize that becoming a better version of ourselves within our family is not a reaction to crisis—it’s a conscious decision that begins today.
Sore as a Symbol of Self-Awareness
Sore is not just a woman from the future—she’s a representation of our inner voice, a wake-up call we often ignore. In the film, Sore patiently reminds Jonathan of the consequences of his actions. She doesn’t lecture him—she walks with him, showing a new perspective.
Sore can be seen as the voice inside us that grows louder when our child becomes distant, when our partner becomes quiet, or when aging parents grow weaker—but often, we choose to delay our response.
Self-awareness through reflection is a core pillar of the New Me: Me & My Family program. We believe strong families start with individuals who are aware of their roles and emotional impact within the system.
Time Cannot Be Rewound, But It Can Be Redeemed
One of the film’s strongest messages is about time. We can’t go back, but we can change our direction today. Jonathan is given a “gift from the future,” not to regret the past—but to take action.
In real life, we don’t have time machines. But we do have something more powerful: awareness and willingness to change. Family relationships often drift apart not out of ill intention, but due to delays—delayed apologies, delayed presence, delayed expressions of love—until one day, the moment passes.
New Me: Me & My Family emphasizes early intervention—restoring family relationships while they can still be saved, not when everything is already broken.
Change Yourself, Change Your Relationships
Jonathan’s transformation doesn’t happen overnight. He experiences denial, confusion, even anger. But over time, he realizes that love is not a word—it’s a consistent series of actions.
This mirrors Qando Qoaching’s philosophy: that change in the family begins within. You can’t pour from an empty cup. To be a better parent, partner, or child, one must be willing to grow consciously and purposefully.
The New Me: Me & My Family program guides individuals to:
- Recognize unhealthy relationship patterns
- Develop empathetic communication
- Build authentic emotional connection
- Create small, consistent actions for family improvement
Reflection and Gratitude
One of the most touching scenes in SORE is when Jonathan begins to appreciate life’s simple joys—eating together, a warm hug, a sincere smile. These ordinary moments turn out to be the most extraordinary.
The film reminds us that happiness in family isn’t built on grand gestures, but on the consistent care we put into small things every day.
The New Me: Me & My Family program helps participants cultivate deep gratitude for their loved ones. With sincere appreciation, we become more motivated to protect, nurture, and heal our family relationships.
We Don’t Need a Time Machine—We Need Awareness
SORE: Istri dari Masa Depan reminds us that love doesn’t last without effort. Family isn’t just a bloodline—it’s a shared space of growth, which needs presence, sacrifice, and the courage to change.
If today you feel a growing distance in your family, don’t wait for your “future version” to intervene. Be the person who becomes more aware, more present, and more loving—starting now.
Start the Change Today!
Qando Qoaching is here to support your journey through New Me: Me & My Family—a self-development program designed to help individuals:
- Enhance the quality of family relationships
- Deal with conflict in a healthy way
- Build genuine emotional bonds
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